A Webinar for Men Addressing Sexual Purity
By Mike Caven
An Online Discipleship Training School Addressing Sexual Purity.
This webinar is intended to get into the hands of all Christian men and male teens first and foremost, then parents, pastors and counselors. This website and the two books are intended to complement each other.
These three pieces of work are divided into three sections, which each, can stand on their own.
First, is this Restore Purity site, have a look and see, “What this Site has to Offer”
Book One; The Choice and the Challenge
Book Two; He Restores My Soul
Both of these books are for anyone who disciple’s counselors, men’s groups, youth groups, teachers, bible schools etc.
This Website is for the students!
Here’s a quick overview of the two books.
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The first book is:
It is a bible study manual helping men to walk in Purity and Holiness, by way of the last Fruit of the Holy Spirit – Self-Control (Galatians 5:22-23) This webinar will give you an introduction, especially concerning the power of a guy’s sex drive.
This course is intended for “ALL” Christian men and it is useful for a basic yet thorough educational tool. Therefore, these materials are not just for those who may have a struggle in these areas but again it is intended for all Christian men, who don’t wrestle with these issues in their lives. For they play a vital role in the supporting of their brothers in Christ who may have been overcome by the power of their sex drive.
The Choice And The Challenge, contains frank, clear and biblical discussions about male sexuality. Within the pages, of The Choice And The Challenge, you will see that this material upholds and celebrates the biblical view of God’s intent for Holiness and Purity for men concerning their maintaining spiritual cleanliness before our God.
What some young men have to say about “The Choice and the Challenge”:
Reading the Choice & The Challenge inspired me to keep pursuing a life of sexual purity. I love how it is filled with scripture and how Mike addresses the issue of sexual purity with a very comprehensive approach – Sam, age 19
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Mike Caven’s personal testimony is both raw and inspiring, offering hope for men who struggle with lust. The Choice & The Challenge doesn’t just confront the reality of lust — it equips men with the wisdom of God’s Word and practical reflection questions to take truths from the head to the heart. This book is a powerful resource for any man seeking freedom and a deeper walk with Christ. – Isaiah, age 21
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This first book contains not only the three topics within the webinar, which are;
Self-Control and Masturbation
- A. Understanding Conviction, Condemnation, Guilt and Shame
- B. The Purpose of our Sex Drive
- C. Walking in our Inheritance
Lust Becoming Undeceived
- A. Understanding Desire and Lust
- B. Satan and the Art of Deception
- C. Lust is a Cancer to our Soul
Defining Pronography
- A. Pornography is Idolatry
- B. Pornography is Devoted to Destruction
- C. No Vile Thing
(There are 9 short videos for each of these 3 topics. A Total 4 hours and 10 minutes in length).
Each teaching is followed by 12 Questions and Answers. These Questions and Answers are great for either one on one end/or group discussion.
The questions and answers are not intended to be a “pass or fail”, exercise, but a “know and understand”, what is going on in the individuals life. The intent of these questions and answers is to get this information into the hearts and minds of each guy.
But also within The Choice and the Challenge are chapters on:
- God is Good
- Sex is Good
- What About Our Heart
- Male Sexual Anatomy and Physiology
- Self-Control and Masturbation (online webinar)
- Lust, Becoming Undeceived (online webinar)
- Sexual Idolatry
- Defining Pornography (online webinar)
These are the eight chapters, giving an overview of what a man faces concerning these topics. Next within Book One, I address; Issues and Roots (which is titled “Silent Killers”, both in this book and also on the website) and some of them are: Sins of the Father, The Lemon Principal, Unbelief, Unforgiveness, Pride, with a total of 25 threads expounding upon topics that can easily inflame our sex drive.
The second name I had for this section of the book was, “Secondary Issues”, for they are what inflame’s an out-of-control issue of lust within a man and all brokenness cascades down from that issue.
Therefore this book can be used as a personal study guide and/or an instruction manual for one on one counseling, or for teaching a small group of men or a Bible study for men.
We have within this book topics that are mostly on the website (but not all) and we have a great amount of material on the website that is not within this book. But they do complement one another as Book One also complements Book Two.
Now Book Two;
This book complements the Restore Purity website, both provide tools, IN THE aiding OF the “Renewing of the Mind.” With meditations on “The Names of God”, “The Cross of Jesus”, and Our Identity In Christ. Plus many teachings all centered around becoming clean before our God.
I have chosen to let my friends whom have studied; He Restores My Soul, to let them speak as to what they took away from their learning of some of the content of this book.
Notice that these five recommendations are from five different continents this is too emphasize that this book is
FOR ALL MEN EVERYWHERE!
Kenya
In reflecting on my recommendation for this book “He Restores My Soul”, I was especially moved by the section on “Identity as a Son.” This chapter beautifully highlights scriptures like:
“I am not distant and angry, but am the complete expression of love.”
– 1 John 4:16
“See what great love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God! And that is what we are!”
– 1 John 3:1
These verses echoed the moral of the prodigal son story in the Bible, which powerfully illustrates the depth of the Father’s love for His children.
This book is a powerful invitation to know God as a loving Father — a subject that resonates deeply especially in today’s world, where fatherlessness and absentee fatherhood have left a void in many lives in the society. It speaks directly to a generationgrappling with the longing for love, identity, and acceptance.
Mike Caven beautifully captures the heart of God, showing how His perfect love offers more than any earthly father ever could (Matthew 7:11). The book provides practical insights and tools to help readers draw closer to God, emphasizing the importance of having clean hands and a pure heart as we ascend the mountain of the Lord.
I also recommend He Restores My Soul for those desiring to pursue purity and holiness in their lives. It complements the themes of Father’s Love Letter and offers further guidance on living in the fullness of God’s love.
George M.
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India
“A Powerful Invitation to Rediscover Identity and Hope”
This heartfelt and scripture-rich work is a profound reminder of our identity as beloved children of God. Through vivid imagery and powerful proclamations, the author invites readers to engage deeply with the truth of God’s love and presence. Whether you are searching for encouragement, restoration, or a closer connection to God, this piece provides a clear, uplifting path forward. It’s not just something to read—it’s something to experience.
I highly recommend it to anyone seeking to strengthen their faith and embrace their identity in Christ.
Vir K.
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South America
If you’re looking for a Christian book on finding freedom from unhealthy sexual relationships or behaviors, I highly recommend He Restores My Soul by Mike.
Any books on this topic are centered around the author’s personal experiences and beliefs, but this one stands apart. For instance, it focuses on what God says about holiness, healing, and recovery.
Mike does an excellent job of presenting the issues from a fresh and biblical perspective.
The book is structured as both a Bible study in a personal journey. It invites the reader to dig deeply into scripture, exploring God’s truth and promises for freedom, healing, and restoration. Rather than just offering personal advice, He Restores My Soul challenges you to find complete freedom in your soul through a deeper relationship with God and a big commitment to his Word. It’s a powerful resource for anyone seeking healing and transformation in the area of unhealthy sexual behaviors.
Danny C.
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Europe
Mike has been a friend for over 25 years and his passion to see people walking in wholeness and purity has always characterized him. This book is not merely a manual for men who want to live a holy life, but it is also a testimony of a man who has been hurt by life and healed by our powerful Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. The material and its applications can benefit a lot of individuals walking out of bondage and sin, into freedom and healthy sexuality.
Richard O.
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Middle East
“He Restores My Soul ”, is a valuable guide for any Christian man desiring to pursue a life of purity and holiness. This book offers wisdom, practical advice, and encouragement for walking in alignment with God’s design, covering topics essential for spiritual growth and personal integrity. With a clear, structured approach, it provides a roadmap for navigating real challenges, making it a worthwhile companion for anyone desiring to experience sexual purity.
Khatchig K
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This book complements the Restore Purity website, yet the site has content which is not in this book.
