Self Control & Masturbation #3

THE CHOICE AND THE CHALLENGE 

(TEACHING 4 – Point Two)

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Video

Text Of Teaching

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Goal

Becoming Mature In Christ

Distinguishing Good From Evil

But Solid Food Is For The Mature

Who By Constant Use Have Trained Themselves To Distinguish Good From Evil

Hebrews 5:14

 

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A Name Of Our God: 

Our God Is Our Father

I Will Be A Father To You

And

You Will Be My Sons…

2 Corinthians 6:18  

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Point Three

Walking In Our Inheritance

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Spiritual Fathers

Even Though You Have 

Ten Thousand Guardians In Christ

You Do Not Have Many Fathers

1 Corinthians 4:15

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Spiritual Fathers

First And Foremost 

  • Spiritual Fathers Are Men Who Are Walking In Their Inheritance
  • They Are Motivated By Their Love For God
  • They Model A Godly Life
  • They Themselves Understand That It’s About Walking In Self Control
  • They Are At A Place Were They Control Their Own Bodies And Not Their Bodies Controlling Them
  • They Themselves Should Be

Satisfied     

Fulfilled  

And 

Content With Their Own Sexuality

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Spiritual Fathers

See The Whole Picture 

Not Just The Instant Momentary Pleasure That Masturbation Brings

Nor Just The Statement 

Don’t – Don’t – Don’t

But All The Consequences As Well

– They Understand The Relationship Between Masturbation And Sexual Fantasy

– Masturbation Is A Sin If Tied To Matthew 5:27-28 (Lusting)

– It Can Become Habit Forming – An Addiction That Is Extremely Difficult To Break

– It Can Greatly Influence How A Young Man Thinks About Sexual Activity    

– It Often Ends In Feeling

                          – Of Emptiness

                                         – Of Guilt

                                         – Of Shame

                                        – Of Condemnation

The Reality Is That Adolescent Boys And Young Men Who Struggle

With The Issue Of An Out Of Control Sex Drive 

Often Need

Spiritual Fathers

To Help Them Bring That Sex Drive Back

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Spiritual Fathers

Their Goal Should Be 

  • To Nurture And Disciple Adolescent Boys And Young Men 
  • To See Them Growing In Their Inheritance As A Christian 
  • Always Pointing Them To Our Heavenly Father and to The Cross of Jesus  

It Is Spiritual Fathers Who Have The Most To Impart 

To These

Adolescent Boys And Young Men

How 

James 5:16 

The Prayer Of A Righteous Man

Is Powerful And Effective

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Spiritual Fathers

 Play A Vital Role In Being 

  • An Encourager
  • An Intercessor
  • A Trusted Confident
  • A Friend

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Speaking of friendship, What the world calls “Accountability,” Scripture calls; “TRUST,” which must be earned. Trust is always a place of “Safety.” When this is done properly the Spiritual Father will be establishing a life long bond with the adolescent and/or young man.

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Concerning Masturbation

Spiritual Fathers Understand That

It’s All About Grace (For adolescent boys.)

But Challenging the young man into a lifestlye of purity and holiness

Concerning Grace Here Are Two Good Quotes About Grace

Whether 

We Try To Abuse God’s Grace

Or

Refuse God’s Grace

The Consequences Are Equally Grim

Grantly Morris

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As We Grow In The Grace Of God

It Will Be The Grace Of God

That Causes Us To Grow

Bob Hoekstra

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Spiritual Fathers

  • Understand That It’s About Growing Into Maturity
  • It Is God’s Will That We Mature
  • That We Develop In Christ Likeness
  • It’s All About Growing – About Maturing In Christ

Another excellent quote by Victor Hugo.

Men Do Not Lack Strength –

They Lack Will

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Spiritual Fathers

Understand That 

  • It’s About Our Inheritance
  • This Inheritance We Must Take 

We Must Actively Take It

Our inheritance does not come to us passively, we must make right choices, we must exercise our will continuously.

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What Is Our Inheritance

But The Fruit Of The Holy Spirit Is

Love

Joy

Peace

Patience

Kindness

Goodness

Gentleness

Faithfulness

Self-Control

Self-Control

Self-Control

Self-Control

Self-Control

Galatians 5:22-23

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I Write To You Fathers

Because

You Have Known Him

Who Is From The Beginning

Knowing God 

As Their Own Father

Knowing 

 His Character

His Attributes

His Nature

And

His Ways In Their Lives

Experiencing His 

His Peace

His Healing

His Victories

His Freedom

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Point Three

Walking In Our Inheritance

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Goal

Becoming Mature In Christ

Distinguishing Good From Evil

But 

Solid Food Is For The Mature

Who By Constant Use Have Trained Themselves

To Distinguish Good From Evil

 

Hebrews 5:14  

 

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Pray

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2 Corinthians 6:18

I Will Be A Father To You

And

You Will Be My Sons…

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